Put your ego in your back pocket!

Recently, I have been in the company of egotistical individuals who criticize all those who disagree with their opinions. Since when are they judge and jury for everyone?
Narcissism and egoism fit like gloves and those with these traits are difficult to understand. They believe that they are right and extend their views to those who will follow. No apology or guilt enter their minds because they pound their chests without regard to other individuals opinions. Empathy or listening is a far reach for the egotistical minds.
There is often nothing substantive in their repertoire but a lot of fluff and fury. When asked a direct question, the egotists rarely give a direct answer. The sidestepping is part and parcel of their belief system. Granted some of these individuals are smart but ignorant of other people's values.
Their following is nothing more than what people are thinking but do not take action on because they basically do not lead their lives thinking they are better than others. The arrogance and criticism is a self-esteem issue as big as a boulder. The only way egotists will hear you is if you agree with their disconnected view of the world. Pay attention to what they are actually saying and don't be fooled by their interpretation of what is in reality.
Real people do not talk about what needs to be done, they act on their convictions.  Real people do not have big egos as this is not important to them. What is important is getting to the goal with courage, commitment and caring. People matter and they show their reality through listening, empathy and team work.

When you think you can be the only one who can fix the problems of the world, clearly see the discrepancy in that thought. Throughout history, we know that wars begin with the knowledge that two or more are engaged with their differences. They go to battle and somebody will win, not by narcissistic talk but by diplomatic strategy.
Criticizing every question asked because you do not have the correct answer is ludicrous and self serving. Where is the substance and the educated, historical response? Do you believe everything spoken or written? Sift through your knowledge and admit that you do not have all the answers.

Because someone criticizes your lack of diplomacy and knowledge does not mean that  you are not well versed in what you know. Respect your fellow colleague, friend, family members and stop holding a grudge with everyone. Give yourself time to truly reflect on the important part of your life.
Leave your past behind and put your ego in your back pocket. A new day will begin when you raise your hands and embrace the real you.